1.“如若曾经掏心掏肺互诉衷肠，就别在分离之后反目成仇相互诋毁，好聚要好散，别辜负相遇。”
"If you've ever talked to each other heart to heart, don't turn into enemies after separation, slander each other, get together and disperse, and don't let go of meeting."
2.“真正放弃一段关系之后其实是会让人觉得轻松的，比较难熬的是在那之前的犹豫和徘徊，任何不死心都会让人觉得痛苦，期待反复出现和落空，这种时刻不如果断一点，及时止损，让自己过得更舒服一点。”
"after giving up a relationship, it will make people feel relaxed. What is more difficult is the hesitation and hesitation before that. Any indomitable heart will make people feel painful and expect repeated emergence and failure. This kind of moment should not be stopped in time to make themselves more comfortable."
3.你要分清楚“在空闲时间才陪你的人”和“专门腾出时间陪你的人”，然后再决定爱谁。
you need to distinguish between "people who spend their spare time with you" and "people who spend their spare time with you", and then decide who you love.
4.“合不来的人就应该早点远离，交朋友和谈恋爱都是一样的，不行就是不行，人类的精力有限，把有限的精力投放到那些相处舒服的人身上才是最最最重要的。”
"people who can't get along with each other should leave early. Making friends and falling in love are the same. If you can't, you can't. human energy is limited. The most important thing is to put the limited energy on those who are comfortable with each other."
5.“越长大越觉得朋友之间的每次相聚变得越来越难得，所以每次分离就会变得更为郑重和不舍，你我都明白，有些告别是为了再次重逢，但有些告别，就像一阵风一样，真的从各自的人生里就此消散了。 ”
"as I grow up, I feel that every gathering between friends becomes more and more difficult, so every separation will become more solemn and reluctant. You and I all know that some farewell is to meet again, but some farewell, like a gust of wind, really dissipates from their respective lives. ”